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- (1980) A First Lady Of Priorities And Properties
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- TIME--The Weekly Newsmagazine--1980 Highlights
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- <source>Time Magazine</source>
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- January 5, 1981
- MAN OF THE YEAR
- A First Lady of Priorities and Proprieties
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- <p> As the duties of the nation's highest office grow ever more
- complex, one equation becomes simpler: power is access, the
- ability to get the President's attention. First Ladies, of
- course, have a natural advantage in that competition, but Nancy
- Davis Reagan, 57, may well turn out to be as influential as any
- woman who ever shared the White House.
- </p>
- <p> The point is not that she helps her husband shape policy. They
- do discuss issues, and she avidly follows television news and
- current affairs (she has read The Memoirs of Richard Nixon and
- Henry Kissinger's White House Years). But the Reagans agree on
- virtually all political matters; she is not likely to nudge him
- in directions he would not take on his own. Her power stems
- rather from her watchful role over his nonpolitical life and the
- influence she wields over his schedule. She will not tolerate
- aides who try to overbook him or monopolize his time. Says one
- friend: "He is the most agreeable guy in the world, and Nancy
- steps in and says, `No, no more.' She eliminates extraneous
- stuff."
- </p>
- <p> Their 28-year-old marriage is truly symbiotic: she provides
- the conditions in which he can flourish, thereby nourishing
- her. Observes a longtime California acquaintance: "There is no
- way in the Reagan relationship that you can say 'like him, hate
- her,' or 'hate him, like her.' You take them together, or you
- don't take them at all." Says another: "Ronnie is a nice man.
- Nancy isn't nice. Nancy is a doer, an achiever, a loyal friend
- and a good mother. But nice she isn't."
- </p>
- <p> This assessment is not a judgment of her personality but of
- the role she has chosen to play. She is a fiercely dedicated and
- protective wife. Woe unto anyone whom she catches speaking
- unfavorably about Ronald Reagan. When Black Panther Eldridge
- Cleaver attacked the then-Governor of California, Nancy was
- immediately on the phone. "But, honey," Reagan said, after
- listening for a while, "I can't have him arrested just because
- he said those things." Acknowledges Reagan now: "She bleeds
- pretty good."
- </p>
- <p> The private side of the marriage remains tender, even
- romantic. Her names for him are Ronnie or "honey," and he favors
- "honey" with her. She is an unabashed sentimentalist. "I'm going
- to puddle up again" is her way of warning friends that she is
- about to cry. Neither Reagan remembers how or if he actually ever
- did propose marriage. Once, though, she told him how she wished
- it had been: that he had taken her for a canoe ride, strummed a
- ukulele, sang and asked her to marry him, while she trailed a
- hand langorously in the water. Reagan later staged this scene,
- more or less, for their 25th anniversary, having bought a canoe
- for the ranch pond and named it True-Lov. "He didn't have a
- ukulele," she remembers, "but I said it would be all right if
- he just hummed."
- </p>
- <p> Her dreams and its fulfillment are instructive. Nancy works
- tirelessly to make the world live up to her expectations. As
- First Lady, she will make the White House reflect what she likes
- to see. That means a comfortable formality for the private
- quarters. "I think I'm a frustrated interior decorator," she
- says, with the prospect of being frustrated no longer. Rooms
- upstairs will probably be done eclectically with English
- antiques, Chinese vases and old favorites from their home in
- Pacific Palisades. Freesias are her favorite flower--purple,
- yellow, red. In fact, red is Nancy's favorite color and will
- surely blaze in the new White House decor.
- </p>
- <p> The hostess-elect worries about costs, as do millions of
- others: "I mean, who can afford the price of great wines these
- days?" The wines they do serve are chosen by Reagan. Her stylish
- wardrobe will remain much the same: "I tend toward simpler
- clothes. I like some things from Yves Saint Laurent. I like
- Bill Blass, Adolfo, and I think Jimmy Galanos is a master,
- although he's got terribly expensive. I remember the first
- dress I ever got from Jimmy; I paid $125 for it. Those good
- old!" Her size (5 ft. 4 in., 110 lbs.) is not likely to change
- either. She does not diet; she "worries" her weight off
- instead.
- </p>
- <p> The intimate dinner party will remain her preferred mode of
- entertainment, but when the Reagans throw an official bash,
- Nancy will bring back hard liquor, pomp and circumstance.
- Ballroom dancing, which both Reagans enjoy, will return to
- vogue, and the entertainment will be cherry; husband and wife
- relish wholesome groups of young people singing in rousing
- harmony. Old Hollywood friends, such as Frank Sinatra, Jimmy
- Stewart and Charlton Heston, will turn up at state dinners and
- public ceremonies, some of which will be white tie.
- </p>
- <p> On her own, Nancy will work quietly for several pet projects.
- She hopes to spur national campaigns against alcoholism and
- drug abuse. She would like to garner private funds to refurbish
- Blair House, the official residence across the street from her
- new address. Handicapped children have a special appeal to her.
- Back in California she frequently visited homes and
- institutions for them, cuddling the youngsters and smiling
- warmly. Once back in her car, she would break down in tears.
- She will not give press conferences, sit in on Cabinet meetings
- or travel extensively on her own. Says a friend: "She is the
- kind of woman who works very hard at making a good marriage."
- The White House will not change that.
- </p>
- <p> Indeed, the demands she makes on herself concern those who know
- her best. Says one: "I wish Nancy could develop a sense of
- humor about this great adventure, instead of a sense of burden."
- The burden will be heavy; she not only will endure relentless
- scrutiny, but her closeness to her husband means that his
- worries will be hers as well. When these pressures assail her,
- the public will probably be none the wiser. "If I have a
- certain core inside of me that is private, it stays private,"
- she told TIME. Life in the national fishbowl will no doubt test
- that resolve to its fullest. Given her character, drive and
- record of success thus far, the odds favor Nancy Reagan.
- </p>
- <p>-- By Paul Gray. Reported by William Rademaekers/Los Angeles
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